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Does God Want Me to Beg Him to Answer My Prayer?

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There's a difference between being a beggar and being a believer. And then there's also this thing called persistence.

Jesus said, “Suppose you went to a friend’s house at midnight, wanting to borrow three loaves of bread. You say to him, ‘A friend of mine has just arrived for a visit, and I have nothing for him to eat.’ And suppose he calls out from his bedroom, ‘Don’t bother me. The door is locked for the night, and my family and I are all in bed. I can’t help you.’ But I tell you this: though he won’t do it for friendship’s sake, if you keep knocking long enough, he will get up and give you whatever you need because of your shameless persistence. So I tell you, keep on asking, and you will receive what you ask for. Keep on seeking, and you will find. Keep on knocking, and the door will be opened to you" ( , NLT).

I've often heard people quote about asking, seeking, and knocking, but we sometimes forget to read the context before or after to get the whole picture. In this account, Jesus was totally trying to help His disciples understand an important principle of prayer: persistence.

Jesus wanted us to understand that when we pray and there’s not an immediate answer, don’t think God is deaf or that He expects us to grovel at His feet before we ask Him anything in prayer. No, on the contrary, Jesus used the example of a friend—one who probably would've helped any other time, but it was the middle of the night. Yet, because of the man's persistence, the friend got up and helped anyway.

The Message Translation says,

"Ask and you’ll get; Seek and you’ll find; Knock and the door will open. Don’t bargain with God. Be direct. Ask for what you need. This is not a cat-and-mouse, hide-and-seek game we’re in" (verses 9-10).

So here's the key I want you to remember:

Prayer is about faith. It’s why we're called believers, not beggars. Jesus didn't tell us to keep on asking because God needs us to beg or He’s hard of hearing.

Jesus knew Father God is pleased with faith.

It's easy to knock on a door once and if no one answers, go to the next door (or in this case, a Plan B). But it's a whole other ballgame when we stand at the door, knock, and keep knocking because we believe there's not another door that has our answer!

Too many people hurry to the next door. I've done it myself. But the Bible says,

"Without faith, it's impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him" ( ).

To keep asking, seeking, and knocking reveals our faith that God is our source. And I'll add: this truth isn’t for those crisis moments only. God wants us to come to Him always, in everything.

So what do you need to do? Go to God and start knocking (in faith)!

Copyright © 2018 Daphne Delay, used with permission.

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Daphne Delay is an author, speaker, and podcaster with a passion to help this generation discover who they are in Christ. She is the author of Facing the Mirror, Facing the Enemy, and Facing God. Daphne blogs nuggets of spiritual growth and encouragement every week at on the subjects of faith, purpose, and self. You can also catch her weekly podcast, Identity Advantage on iTunes. She knows first-hand what unworthiness, guilt, and condemnation can do to a believer. After an encounter with God at age 21, she discovered the truths of our righteousness in Christ — which she now