What's Happening To The Phrase, 'Thank You?'

Mom said, "'Please' and 'Thank-You' are the magic words."  Sadly, some of that magic disappeared.

A new survey of 2,000 Americans reveals more than half of the time when we say, "thank you," we don't really mean it.  What's worse, the people we say it to know we don't mean it. 

The survey, conducted by the Merci Chocolates, found that most of us say "thank you" about five times a day, adding up to 2,000 times a year.  But half of those questioned said they believe the phrase has lost its true meaning. 

The results were skewed based on age.  Those under 25 were nearly twice as likely to be insincere in their thanks versus someone over 55.

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What about people who don't even bother to say thank you?  One-third of respondents says they simply forget to do it, and another third say they probably should, but are too distracted when someone does something nice for them. 

A spokesperson for Merci Chocolates said, "We move so fast today and sometimes we're on autopilot, saying things out of habit without properly conveying our gratitude. Sometimes that can leave those around us feeling under appreciated or thinking we're insincere.  Saying or showing gratitude is a simple gesture that, when delivered properly, can have a big impact and truly brighten someone's day.  The art of a meaningful thank you shouldn't be lost."

Results showed when it comes to showing our gratitude properly, face-to-face is the best way.  Phones calls, texts and tokens of appreciation are also good.

Only one out of every three people have ever given someone flowers, chocolates or types a thank you letter.  One in four people said they have never sent a thank you text or email.  

Who needs a 'thank you' the most?  Respondents said the most under appreciated people in their lives are their garbage collector, mother and teachers.